
Surrender.
One of the dictionary meanings is
"to relinquish to the power of another; yield to the control of another."There are four verses in the New Testament where the Greek can be translated as surrender (the following verses are from The Amplified Bible):
So then, any of you who does not forsake (renounce, surrender claim to, give up, say good-bye to) all that he has cannot be My disciple. (Luke 14:33)
For I am not ashamed of the Gospel (good news) of Christ, for it is God's power working unto salvation [for deliverance from eternal death] to everyone who believes with a personal trust and a confident surrender and firm reliance, to the Jew first and also to the Greek,... (Romans 1:16)
Do you not know that if you continually surrender yourselves to anyone to do his will, you are the slaves of him whom you obey, whether that be to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience which leads to righteousness (right doing and right standing with God)? (Romans 6:16)
Even if I dole out all that I have [to the poor in providing] food, and if I surrender my body to be burned or in order that I may glory, but have not love (God's love in me), I gain nothing. (1 Corinthians 13:3)Surrender often has a negative meaning/feeling to it. It implies that we have 'lost,' that we have to 'give up' to a more powerful force - when we really don't want to. And, to some degree that is true.
I regularly read a blog called "The Anchoress."
(In Christian spiritual tradition an anchoress is a woman who withdraws from the world to live a solitary life of prayer and meditation.) The woman who writes this blog writes about both political and spiritual things. She recently had a post titled
"The Dangerous Prayer of Blessing." Here is a portion of that post...
This blessing is dangerous because it takes you (and me) out of the equation and dares to allow God to work what and as He will.
This ‘blessing’ was prayed over Henri Nouwen (spiritual author) by his spiritual mentor:
May all your expectations be frustrated.
May all your plans be thwarted.
May all your desires be withered into nothingness.
That you may experience the powerlessness and the poverty of a child and sing and dance in the love of God the Father, the Son and the Spirit.
That sounds like a terrible prayer if you are praying it, for example, for a dying loved one, for parents of a sick child. But is it, really? In fact, it sums up the whole idea of “not my will, but thine be done…”
It is precisely what Jesus taught us, but we forget that. We’re so into “feel good” Christianity and “expect a miracle” thinking (and there is much to feel good about in Christianity, and many miracles to expect) that we forget the hard truth - that beneath all of that we’re supposed to be disposed toward surrender. We’re supposed to get out of the Creator’s way so that He may increase as we decrease.
We pray “thy will be done…,” but I think many times we don’t mean it. We say it because we know we “should,” but it’s bittersweet. “Okay, Lord, you’re going to do it your way, so I’ll acquiesce…but, please, please, can’t you do it my way? Think about it, Lord! My way is pretty good, too, isn’t it? And you want me to be happy, don’t you? Get back to me, Lord! Love ya! Mean it! Call me!”
"...that we forget the hard truth... we're supposed to be disposed toward surrender, we're supposed to be getting out of the Creator's way so that
He may increase as we decrease."
She's right in that I often don't mean
"Thy will be done" - even when I say it.
One of the things we often hear in pastoral counseling is,
"I have prayed many times that God would take this away from me" with "this" being an addiction, a hatred, unforgiveness, etc., etc. What we have to gently tell them is that there is an unspoken part of their prayer -
"God please take this away from me... because I don't want to give it up." We don't like whatever "this" is, but we don't want to surrender it to God. We want Him to forcefully take it away from us.
Surrendering is never easy - but, if I'm to be true to my belief in who God is, I have to constantly struggle towards true surrender. What I lose will be far outweighed by what I gain.
God's blessings to you all on this Lord's day.
Today is February 22 and if today is your Birthday then you share your day with: Dorothy Cooksey (my Mother), Drew Barrymore (actress, "50 First Dates"), Michael Chang (pro tennis player), Jeri Ryan (actress, Seven of Nine on "Star Trek: Voyager"), Vijay Singh (pro golfer), Steve Irwin (the Crocodile Hunter), Julius Erving (pro basketball player - Dr. J), Edward Kennedy (Massachusetts Senator), Robet Wadlow (tallest man in the world - 8' 11"), Sheldon Leonard (producer, "The Dick Van Dyke Show"), Robert Young (actor, "Father Knows Best"), Lady Baden-Powell (force behind the start of the Girl Scouts), Lord Baden-Powell (founder of the Boy Scouts), Frederic Chopin (composer), and George Washington (1st US President).On this day in 1630 Indians introduce pilgrims to popcorn, at Thanksgiving. In 1819 Spain ceded Florida to the United States (and 2,000 New Yorkers immediately moved there for the winter). In 1879 Frank Winfield Woolworth opened a five-cent store in Utica, New York. In 1900 Hawaii becomes a US Territory. In 1924 Calvin Coolidge delivered the first presidential radio broadcast from the White House. In 1935 all plane flights over the White House are barred because they are disturbing President Roosevelt's sleep. In 1967 a report from Africa indicates that the world's first white gorilla has been found. And in 1980 ("Do you believe in miracles!?") in a stunning upset, the United States Olympic hockey team defeated the Soviets at Lake Placid, New York, 4-to-3. (The U-S team went on to win the gold medal.)