
During my life, I have had lots of acquaintances, many friends, and a few really close friends.
When I was a little kid in Nashville, I think my best friends were my sister and my female cousins (I've always liked girls). However, to them I was probably just a bratty little brother/cousin. When we moved to Birmingham, Alabama I became good friends with a guy who lived down the street - Alan Wright. Alan and I shared a lot of the same interests, especially our love for playing baseball.
As a teenager we moved from Birmingham back to Nashville and I met the person who's been my best and closest friend from that time until today -- Betty. We met and started dating as juniors in high school.
As an adult, besides Betty, I've had a few good male friends -- Bob in Ohio, Lane in Canada and one or two others. In fact, today is the day we arrive at Lane and Margie's ranch in Caroline, Alberta, Canada to spend a week with them and three more good friends.
I also am fortunate to consider both of my sons as good friends.
When Jesus told the disciples that he was now going to call them friends, he meant something very special. The Greek for friend is philos which literally means 'dear.' Jesus was saying to the disciples 'you are dear to me.'
Like most scripture, we can apply his words to us. Jesus wants us to know that we are dear to him -- to the point that he died for us on the cross.
Now that's a good friend.