There are only a few things about the Winter Olympics that get me interested -- figure skating and the ice hockey, especially the women's hockey. To me the women's hockey competition is the essence of the Olympic spirit. The competitors are hard-working amateurs -- not like the professionals in the men's competition (although I like watching them). I also like Olympic hockey because the emphasis is on competition and not fighting.
I watched the US vs. Canada gold medal game and it was exciting and heart-breaking at the same time. The US women had a 2-0 goal advantage going into the last four minutes. During that time, when Canada took their goalie out of the net to get a one person advantage, the US almost got an open-net goal, but the puck hit the bar of the net -- just an inch away from sealing their victory.
In that last few minutes Canada scored two goals to tie the game and won it in overtime.
For the US women it was so close. Canada had won the previous three Olympic gold medals and it looked like this was going to be the US women's year. But it didn't happen.
The agony of defeat.
All of us suffer some kind of defeat in our lives - physical, emotional, spiritual - and sometimes more than once.
When I look back on the defeats in my life the one thing I can see that makes them worthwhile is they made me stronger.
Victory is wonderful. Victory is the reward for hard work. Yet, victory often doesn't take us to the next level.
Defeat takes us to the next level. It can give us the motivation to work harder and smarter -- if we're willing to embrace our defeat with grace and courage.
Prior to going to the cross, the apostles were celebrating their 'victory.' They saw Jesus as the prophesied Messiah, the King who would bring them freedom from the oppression of the Romans and the Sanhedrin. They argued who would sit at his right hand in his new kingdom. They didn't see him as the sacrificial lamb for their sins.
His death on the cross seemed like the greatest defeat they could ever imagine. Even Satan thought he had won.
Jesus embraced his 'defeat' - not my will but your's be done.
Out of his 'defeat' came the greatest victory for all of us -- victory over sin and death. His apostles went from 'losers' to determined carriers of the good news of Jesus Christ -- even unto their own deaths. They were taken to a new level beyond anything they could ever imagine.
The US women will come back and I believe they will win the gold in four years. They embraced their defeat with grace and courage. They will come back at a new level.
I know Jesus has won the gold for me because of his 'defeat.' Some day we will stand on the podium of eternity and know the eternal victory he has won for us.
PS: For those too young, here's where 'the agony of defeat' had it's genesis in 1978: