Monday, July 30, 2012

So What Were We Doing in Cookeville, Tennessee?

As you probably know, Betty and I just came home from a three-week driving trip that took us to Mount Vernon, Ohio to visit our youngest son and his family, then to Bowling Green, Kentucky to visit my sister and her family, then to Franklin, Tennessee to visit with Betty's stepmother and sister, and finally to Cookeville, Tennessee.

Back in early June, I took a five-day clinic with Larry Whitesell and Jennifer Bauer. There were 7 of us in the clinic and I was the only one who didn't bring a personal horse.

Larry Whitesell is a recognized gaited horse trainer and Jennifer Bauer is his partner/protegee. Larry is a few years younger than me and Jennifer is a very young 30. It is clear that Larry is preparing Jennifer to take over most of their clinic business and all of their horse training business.

The two of them do five-day clinics together, both in Cookeville and in other cities. Separately, they each do three-day clinics. As I write this, Larry is in Oregon doing clinics and then moving on to Ohio and Canada before returning home.

Of the two, Jennifer is the one who will work with problem gaited horses and bring them back into relaxation, balance and flexion. She is in such demand that the next opening she has for another horse is next June, 2013. She will not take a horse unless the owner agrees to take a three-day course with her to be sure they can continue the work she has done. They learned from past experience that they would often bring a horse up to a high level, but the owner wasn't prepared to keep them there.

Jennifer is also the one who will do private lessons. I learned so much from the earlier clinic that I wanted Betty to share in that learning, so we arranged five private lessons with Jennifer who is both an excellent rider and excellent teacher.

Their approach is not basic foundational work, often lumped under the term 'natural horsemanship.' They believe in 'natural horsemanship,' but view it as the foundational work that a new horse or rehab horse needs. However, once the horse has that foundation, they offer training for the rider to bring him and the horse to a higher level.

Their training is classical rider training based on the Spanish School of Horsemanship. Their personal mentors are Mark Russell and Dominique Barbier, both of California. Larry and Jennifer go for a week of personal training from these men each summer to continue to hone their personal skills.

Even though we often associate classical training with Dressage, their philosophy is the concepts and skills of classical training are applicable to all forms of riding.

In a simplified form, they help the rider find balance, relaxation and lightness within themselves to help the horse find balance, relaxation and lightness. In other words, if we want our horse to be more balanced, more relaxed and lighter, then we need to improve balance, relaxation and lightness within ourselves.

We do this within ourselves and for our horse by being a balanced rider and by helping our horse find his rhythm through our balance and timing.

Over the next few days, I'll post more about the concepts that we learned that are helping us and ultimately will help Morgunn and Sugar.

If you're interested in learning more about Larry Whitesell and Jennifer Bauer, here are the links to their websites:

Larry's site - http://whitesellgaitedhorsemanship.com/


Jennifer's site - http://www.gaitedhorsemanship.com/


Monday Video - Domino Soldiers

After two long driving days we arrived home last night - there really is no place,like home.

This morning I'm getting my annual bone scan for my osteopenia/osteoporosis and a talk with the endocrinologist.

So, enjoy this video. We've all probably seen demonstrations of military precision maneuvers, but this Belarusian military unit takes it to an extreme.

 

 

Sunday, July 29, 2012

Heading' Home

We spent our last night on the road in Weatherford, Oklahoma - the same place we spent the first night. Seems kind of appropriate.

We've been in Mount Vernon, Ohio with our youngest son and his family. Then Bowling Green, Kentucky with my sister and her family. We went down to Franklin, Tennessee to spend a great week with Betty's stepmother and sister. Finally, we had a great week in Baxter, Tennessee working on our horse riding skills.

We've also seen some great country as we have driven through New Mexico, Texas, Oklahoma, Missouri, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Kentucky, Tennessee, and Arkansas.

We had our last dinner on the road at T-Bone's Steakhouse and they had an interesting item on the menu. When we saw it, we thought of a very good friend and she knows who she is.

 

It will probably take a couple of days to settle in, but I'll be back in a couple of days.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Hi From Baxter, Tennessee

Betty and I have one more day in our riding lessons with Jennifer Bauer. We have learned a ton and I'll share more when I get home.

This picture is us in the arena on Wednesday morning. Betty was riding Fresco and I was riding Bubba - what a great name. Fresco is super trained so you get to feel what any move is supposed to feel like when you do it right. Bubba is a little more of a challenge.

More later.

 

For you Mythbusters fans here's a great photo I got from our good friend Molly...

 

Monday, July 23, 2012

Monday Video - David and Goliath.

Here's an animal version of David and Goliath.

Enjoy.

 

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Sunday Reflection - Be Quick

We drive to Cookeville, Tennessee today to start our riding lessons with Jennifer Bauer tomorrow morning.

One of the things I have learned over the years is that if you want to really learn something you have to open your ears and shut your trap. I ran across this quote from Steven Covey (7 Habits of Successful People) while we were at Betty's stepmother's place:

"Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply."

How often do we think about what we want to say back to someone rather than truly trying to understand what they are saying?

Listening with the intent to just give our wise and insightful reply is a false listening. The listening focus is on ourselves.

True listening is listening with a desire is to truly understand what the other person is saying and, in that way, to learn more about them.

The Bible says something similar in James 1:19:

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry,...

Being quick to listen means making that our first priority. True listening is listening to understand what the other person is saying.

Listening to understand, true listening, is a prerequisite for learning.

In a relationship, true listening is one of the greatest gifts we can give to someone we care about.


So, my goal this week is to keep my mouth shut and listen to what Jennifer has to teach me.

 

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Hi From Franklin, Tennessee

We arrived at Betty's stepmother's house on Monday afternoon.

We have had a wonderful visit with Nita and Margie, Betty's sister. We have had wonderful food, good conversation and Margie, Betty and I have enjoyed going to the pool in Nita's condo community.

The only problem has been the heat (see picture at left taken of the thermometer on Nita's patio taken at 4:15 PM today, Thursday).

What makes it even worse is the humidity. The dew point has been around 75 which means it feels like a suffocating, wet blanket any time you go outside.

I love many aspects of Tennessee - family, the rolling green hills, but I hate the humidity.

We're looking forward to getting back to our low humidity New Mexico.

We'll leave Sunday about 12:30 PM to make the drive to Cookeville for our riding lessons next week.

Take care. We miss you all.

 

Monday, July 16, 2012

Monday Video - Daily Dose of Cute

Do you need your daily dose of cute? Check out these polar bear cubs at play while Mom keeps a watchful eye.

Enjoy.

 

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Hi From Bowling Green, Kentucky

We've been in Bowling Green with my sister, Jane, and her husband, Hack. We went to our family reunion yesterday in Nashville and tomorrow we head for Franklin, Tennessee to visit with Betty's stepmother and sister.

Here are some random pictures of cousins, nephews, nieces from the reunion.

 

Friday, July 13, 2012

Friday Funny - Prairie Dog Surgery

This just struck me as really funny - especially if you live here in the West with prairie dogs.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Hi From Mount Vernon, Ohio

We arrived in Mount Vernon last night about 4:30 PM. It was a long three day drive, but we made it fine. We had dinner with Chris and Tracy at their place and then came back to our place for a long night's sleep.

We're staying at our favorite place, the Mount Vernon Inn.

 

Here are a couple of pictures from this morning after breakfast as we enjoyed our coffee and caught up on our email.

 

 

Monday, July 9, 2012

Hi From Collinsville

Hi from Collinsville, Illinois which is just East of St. Louis. When we left on Sunday, we drove all the way to Weatherford, Oklahoma, just West of Oklahoma City, and spent the night there. Today, we drove through the rest of Oklahoma, all through Missouri to just inside Illinois. Tomorrow we'll drive through Illinois, all of Indiana to Mont Vernon, Ohio which is Northeast of Columbus. That's where our youngest son and his wife live.

Take care. I'm tired and going to bed.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Sunday Reflection - We're Off

Well, some people might say we're off, but we're talking about something else. We're leaving today for a driving trip to the mid-West to visit family, attend a family reunion and take a weeks training with the same trainer I visited in late May.

I'll do occasional blog posts as things occur on our trip.

So, God's blessings on you all. Be good and stay out of the cookie jar.

I'll leave you with this video of one of God's wonderful creations.

 

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Happy 4th of July

 

Liberty! Freedom! Independence!

Our country was established on those principles. The Declaration of Independence and our Consitution may not be perfect documents, but they are far superior to anything else the world has seen.

Liberty, freedom and independence are sometimes messy, but they give each man and woman the most opportunity to reach their potential.

It may seem impossible that we could lose our liberty, freedom and independence, but it is possible. It won't come through an attack from without, but a giving up from within.

We wish everyone a Happy 4th of July and we pray that our country will know how precious our liberty, freedom and independence are to each of us.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

So True

I ran across this cartoon in another blog I read - Rockley Farm. They rehab horses who have hoof problems.

If you want to learn more about how going barefoot can help a horse, this is a good site.

Here's the cartoon.

 

 

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Sunday Reflection - 45 and Counting

Today, July 1, is our 45th anniversary.

This picture is the wedding photo for Betty's Dad and his new wife, Nita. Betty's brother Bill, his wife Noel and their son Galen are to the left. Then her Dad, Bill, and Nita, Betty's sister Margie, her brother Jim, Betty and me.

Betty's Dad and Nita were married the same year we were on October 7 after Betty and I were married on July 1, 1967.

Here are just a few facts about the year we were married:

  • US Population in 1967: 198,712,056 (today: 313,000,000)
  • Dow Jones high: 943 (12,879)
  • Federal Spending: $157.46 Billion (6.3 trillion)
  • Unemployment: 3.8% (8.2%)
  • Cost of a New Home: $24,600.00 ($256,000)
  • Gallon of milk: $1.03 ($3.79)
  • Dozen eggs: $0.49 cents ($2.00)
  • Gallon of gas: $0.33 cents ($3.89)
  • Comic Books: $0.12 cents ($3.53)
  • 5-stick pack of Gum: $0.05 cents ($1.49)
  • First class stamp: $0.05 cents ($0.45)
1967 was a year of firsts - the first microwave was introduced by Amana, the game Twister went on sale for the first time and the game, Battleship, was first played.

Betty and I were just starting out on what was to be a grand adventure. We were 22 years old in the picture above. I was finishing my senior year in college at the University of Tennessee and Betty was teaching math.

As with most young adults we were living in the present. We had no idea I would spend four years in the Navy with two tours in Vietnam. We wanted kids and the dream came true in our two sons, Wade Daniel and Chris while I was in the Navy. We had no thoughts of wonderful daughters-in-law who would come or the terrific grandchildren we love and enjoy. The idea of living in New Mexico and riding horses was nowhere on our radar screen.

We only thought of wonderful things back then and couldn't envision being separated for months because of Naval service, Betty's father dying, the loss of a wonderful nephew to cystic fibrosis, cancer for me, accidents and illness for Betty and on and on.

Yet, all of this and more, good and bad, has made up the 45 years we have shared. These life events have shaped us as individuals and as a couple. We can't change the past and I don't think either of us would ever consider it even if we could.

The most wonderful thing of all that has changed our lives as individuals and as a couple is our devotion to Christ as our Lord and Savior starting in 1984. It's because of him that we now savor every day.

We don't know how long we have together as a couple on this earth, but we love every moment we share together. It has been and still is a great adventure.

Looking forward to 50, God willing.