Betty and I started riding horses when we were 50 so that means we’ve been riding and around horses for 15 years. During that time I have seen the healing power of horses many times.
We started riding because Betty had a bad back from an accident and read somewhere that riding horses was good for the back. So, the healing presence of horses is what got us started with horses.
While we lived in Ohio we volunteered for a year and a half at a horse therapy center. We watched and worked with kids and adults who had all kinds of problems – autism, multiple sclerosis, etc. – and when they got on to a horse it was amazing to watch the change.
There was one little, six-year old girl with autism. Her mother said that she hardly communicated at all, except for the one day a week when she came to ride. After she had ridden, she was very communicative for the rest of the day.
There was the woman who developed multiple sclerosis as a young adult. She had ridden all her life, but now could only ride with the assistance of others. Yet, she still loved it and you could see the joy in her face when she was around and on a horse.
When Betty had her accident on her horse Gletta and was laid up for six months she was hurt in more than just her body. Her emotional connection to horses was injured as well and it manifested itself as fear. Through her own courage and the gentleness of Sugar and now especially Morgunn, that healing has happened. The fear is gone and the joy is back in her riding.
For five years I have been getting up every morning at sunrise to feed the horses and clean up the night’s manure – and I still look forward to it. I never regret having to get up to go spend that quiet, special time with Sugar and Morgunn. Every once in awhile, they will be in the back behind the round pen when I come out the door. Morgunn will speed up toward the stable and, when he does, Sugar will kick up her heels and they will both come galloping. Sometimes they will be going so fast they have to run around the stable to to slow down.
I love it and my soul rejoices.
When I’m around Sugar and Morgunn, I can tell exactly how I am feeling as they mirror my emotional state. If I am calm and relaxed so are they. If my mind is distracted, they don’t pay as much attention to me.
They live in the moment and never hold a grudge. I can be the worst rider in the world one day and they still trust me the next day. They help me to learn how to live in each moment and come back to a place of balance.
I receive a healing touch every time I’m around the two of them.
Where in this wide world can man find nobility without pride,
Friendship without envy,
Or beauty without vanity?
Here, where grace is served with muscle
And strength by gentleness confined
He serves without servility; he has fought without enmity.
There is nothing so powerful, nothing less violent.
There is nothing so quick, nothing more patient.
~Ronald Duncan, "The Horse," 1954


